
Deanna Becket is a professional keynote speaker, author, and Character Coach— and she will be the first to tell you that the story behind the stage is the one worth knowing.
Born and raised on the prairies of North Dakota, Deanna learned early that hard work, fun, and good friends are not optional. They are essential. She carried that conviction through college — including a semester abroad in Melbourne, Australia that expanded her world in ways she is still unpacking — and graduated from North Dakota State University with a Business Administration degree and a full social life that, if she is honest, was occasionally her highest priority.
That honesty is part of what makes Deanna, Deanna.
The college years came with some hard choices. Partying and chasing the wrong relationships led to a moment that would define her — at 19, she found herself pregnant and alone, and made the courageous decision to place her baby girl for adoption with a family who had been waiting and praying for exactly her. It was one of the hardest things she has ever done. And it set in motion a journey of growth that she has spent years turning into something that helps others.
The full story lives in Chapter 2 of Cultivating Your Character. It is worth reading.
After moving to the Black Hills of South Dakota, Deanna met Chris — and knew. They married and built a life together that has been anything but ordinary. They chose to homeschool both of their children all the way through high school, and those kids have grown into the kind of people who make their parents proud and a little amazed. Deanna will tell you — with only a little bit of humor — that she holds a Ph.D. in M.O.M., and she has earned every credit hour.
It was during those early years of motherhood that Deanna started doing the inner work. Growth and development books. Joyce Meyer. Joel Osteen. Bible Study Fellowship. One habit at a time, one truth at a time — she began building the kind of character she wanted to model for her children and eventually teach to others.
That is where the speaking, the writing, and the coaching were born.
Deanna and Chris eventually traded the Black Hills for the east coast of Florida, where they continue to grow, lead, and choose excellence — one day at a time.
Today, Deanna brings everything she has lived — the hard chapters and the beautiful ones — to every stage, every coaching session, and every page she writes. She is not here to perform. She is here to come alongside you and help you SHINE.
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Some of the best decisions look a little strange from the outside.
After 9/11, Deanna and Chris made a quiet, deliberate choice — they turned off the television. Not as a protest. Not as a statement. Just as a decision to protect something they valued more than the noise.
What rushed in to fill the silence surprised them both. Reading. Thinking. Conversations that actually went somewhere. Time to grow — as individuals, as a couple, as parents. The quiet quadrupled, and so did everything that mattered.
Around that same season, Deanna had the preschool registration filled out, check ready to hand in — when she met another mom who homeschooled. Something in that conversation stopped her. She wanted that for her family. So she chose it. Both children were homeschooled all the way through high school, and the Becket family has never looked back.
These weren't dramatic decisions. They were daily ones. Made on purpose. Repeated until they became a life.
The thread running through all of it? Peace.
Not the passive kind — the kind you chase. Deanna has made peace her pursuit in every area of life: in her finances, her decisions, her relationships, and her mind. What started as a one-year focus became a lifestyle. And it is the single most life-changing habit she has ever built.
Her wish for you is simple:
Choose life. Choose PEACE. Seek it and run after it — until it overtakes you.


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