💬Asking for Help is a Power Move, Not a Weakness

When someone asks you for help, what’s your first response?

Chances are, you’re glad to lend a hand. Most of us are wired to respond with generosity and support when someone reaches out. So why, then, do we often hesitate to ask for help ourselves? Why do we associate it with weakness?

I tease my son and my husband—two self-proclaimed “tough guys” who pride themselves on doing everything solo. They rarely ask for help, even when they need it. But here’s the thing: I’m always willing to help. I just can’t read minds. If they don’t ask, I don’t know how to support them. And that’s true for all of us—we can’t help someone unless they’re willing to ask.

🤝 Help Isn’t Just Nice—It’s Necessary

We all need help. Period.

Whether it’s emotional support, professional guidance, or simply an extra set of hands, asking for help is a sign of wisdom, not weakness. In fact, sometimes the help we need isn’t just a favor—it’s a hire. Life is full, and no one excels at everything. You have strengths, yes—but you also have gaps. And those gaps are where the right help can make all the difference.

Hiring someone who thrives in your weak spots isn’t just smart—it’s transformative. The right person can multiply your impact, elevate your business, and help you shine brighter as a team in the eyes of those you serve.

A leader in a former company once said something that stuck with me: “You can do ANYTHING, but you cannot do EVERYTHING.”

🧘‍♀️ Strength Under Control

Trying to do everything alone leads to exhaustion—physically, mentally, emotionally. As I’ve matured (notice I didn’t say “aged!”), I’ve learned to take life more in stride. I’ve slowed my pace, and I’ve started to enjoy the journey instead of sprinting toward the next task.

When I have the right help, I’m not just more productive—I’m more present. I notice the scenery. I breathe deeper. I live fuller.

Asking for help requires humility. And humility isn’t weakness—it’s strength under control. It’s patience. It’s freedom from pride and arrogance. In a world that often glorifies self-sufficiency, humility is a quiet rebellion. It’s a powerful choice.

Let’s be the change. Let’s normalize asking for help. Let’s show that true strength lies in knowing when to reach out.

Helping others is noble. Asking for help is brave. You can do it—and you’ll be stronger for it.